The only thing that mankind
aspire for in today's world is peace, harmony, growth and brotherhood. For this
one should never forget to show love, care, good deeds and speak a tone which
brings harmony, happiness and prosperity in the society. No doubt we have many organization
doing this at international and national level among the people of different ethnics,
races and religion on very large scale.
Now let’s us ask ourselves what at
individual level, people like you and me can do to contribute towards this
beautiful world. Apart from all the above points, which we have to do, there is
one thing which we have forgotten in this fast world where everyone is tense
about their workload, future security and careers. That one thing is
S.M.I.L.E., in which we should all believe.
We all know life isn't fair but
we should also know that smiling is much easier than frowning. Yes it’s true
based on muscle that are required to smile and frown. Smile have universally
the same impact irrespective of any caste, race, gender and geography. We
should all smile like a sunshine to the humanity. One should never miss the opportunity
to smile to impress someone.
You must be having a lot of
questions like - what’s the benefit smile has on me, what is the cause for
people to holds their smile, doesn’t too much smiling make us look stupid and
many more. Well to answer I can say smile is very much dependent on your
situation, circumstances and your surrounding environment. If you are in bad
mood or situation or living in an environment which is full of hatred, tensed
then obviously you won't have smile that easily. But, if we start building the
habit of smiling, we can definitely tune the surrounding to better one or at
least will give us confidence to fight our situation.
Your sadness reflects many of the
things which holds you from smiling. Few of them are below which we all should
work on continuously.
Worry: The first and foremost
thing is worry or anxiety which we all keep. We are always worried or anxious
what will happen today or in future with you. Where you will stand and so many
things. Though it is necessary to worry or think of future, but we need to draw
a line where beyond which we don't move in worry state. Make sure you don't do
overthinking and just keep doing your task to the best of your limit and rest all
will be taken care by your karma.
Depression: Second in the list is
depression, which I feel is an advance state of too much worries. Once you go
in depression, the whole world seems to be against you. It not only affects you
but also your closed and loved ones badly. Don't be pressed too much by your
current circumstance and think rational to resolve your issue. And, yes share
your problems whom you can trust if things are not under your control.
Fear: Fear makes you afraid of
many things and keeps you away from all the good things that might happen to
you. One must learn to build confidence by doing daily yoga, meditation and by
being in company of good people. Don't let fear control your emotions and
heart. Build confidence and bring your smile back.
Socially and economically less privileged:
Smile is next impossible thing if you have no friend or closed one and no money
in pocket. Passing day and night on empty stomach with no friends, no food for
tomorrow is one of the saddest thing in this world. It deprives you away of
even a minute of joy. In such case, only others can help us and if you know
such people or family, one must try to provide them food or work so they can at
least feed their stomach.
We all know there would be hardly
any person on this planet who will have an ideal environment to smile. But,
such environment can never be created also. So, amid all your worry, poverty,
fear make an extra effort to smile. It will give hopes to you and people around
you and good start of their and your day. Don't ignore the impact of smile which
can make a difference in everyone’s life.
Coming to the benefits smile is
very powerful to an extent where it can release your stress, keep you calm,
attractive, happy and makes you feel like a leader. Smile may work as follows
in your life:
Medicine: Smile is a cheapest and
fastest medicine to prevent you from stress and depression. If no precaution
taken, stress will eventually break you down. It will take hell lot of time to
recover which again depends on your will-power. This will-power can be built
with smile when you take on every challenge, every situation in your life with
smile rather than complaining or taking stress about it.
Attractive: I bet you would have
hardly seen any attractive person without a smile except for fashion models. A
smile can do things which even the costliest makeup or dress can't do. It
enhances your prettiness, your beauty. It shows you are a person who knows beauty comes from within.
Caring: Smile shows that you care
for people under you and wants them to be as smiley as you. A smile assures
that you can be the person on whom we all can depend in times of crisis.
Networking: People always tends
to keep person who brings positive vibes while hanging around. Smile helps you to
be a person which everybody wants to be in their company of friends. It shows
that you are open for friendship and make good relations. Smile somehow gives
you that mindset that helps in solving problems or at least an attitude to solve
the problem in different and quick way.
And lastly Happiness: The
ultimate symbol of smile is happiness and shows you are happy. So keep smiling
and be Happy.
There has being many research done
on smile and its various impact. What is the chemical and hormonal changes goes
inside the body when you smile. What we have seen till now is all emotional
aspects of smile. But, have you ever thought what physically goes into when you
smile? Now let us see what science has to say about smile.
As science believe, there are more
than 18 different types of smiles and only 6 are for happiness. And we thought,
smile is a smile. However, they all come naturally depending on the situation
and environment and upon learning we can master them.
For one smile, it takes around 50
muscles to work. This makes people understand whether your smile is real one or
sarcastic from your eyes. When you smile it release a hormone call endorphin
that makes our emotional state better. The other name for endorphin is Happy
Hormone.
Smile happens without much
thought process. As you might have noticed when you see your friends doing some
silly or embarrassing act, you grin, when you know you were let go unpunished
for your mistake, you beam and when you excel in your work you smirk. Its
natural process to show your happiness.
An action plan for you to do now.
Just close your eyes and visualize your happiest moments that made you laugh.
That moment can be a joy of watching an innocent new born baby. A smile on
wrinkled face of an old person when you show them something which was not there
in their time or you see satisfaction on their face that they lived their life
well when they look back.
And yes, too much smiling doesn’t make you look stupid just make sure you don’t smile or laugh on other’s problem or pain. So, stop worrying and start smiling as it reminds me of one very common phrase. Smile! It improves your face value.
And yes, too much smiling doesn’t make you look stupid just make sure you don’t smile or laugh on other’s problem or pain. So, stop worrying and start smiling as it reminds me of one very common phrase. Smile! It improves your face value.